Learning to ask instead of telling

hi, 

I've been given the feedback more often than not that I'm extremely good at finding the challenges and issues around problems incl. also provide possible solutions for them - BUT I have a tendency to lists those outright and that often makes people think a specific challenge and issue is my personal point-of-view rather than me listing the concern.

The best I can describe as is that I tell what the situation is rather than letting my directs and peers discover it them self.

I keep being told if I would just ask questions rather than tell the solution I would be better off.

I've tried but I keep failing/falling back to telling.

Anyone can recommend podcasts or books or trainings that can help one getting better at asking rather than telling ?